— Doug Larson
Insights on Today's Quote
Friends who stick around when you’re face-planting through life? Those are the ones who laugh with you, not at you, when you try to parallel park and end up on the curb. They’re there, unbothered, with snacks. But the kicker? It takes a whole different level of maturity (and, let’s be real, ego management) to cheer someone on when they’re thriving. Success, after all, can be a little polarizing. It’s like, “Oh wow, Karen, you’ve got a promotion, a perfect family, and a six-pack? Cool, cool, I just microwaved leftovers in the plastic container again.”
True friendship is about holding the mirror without cracking it—even when that reflection shows someone else winning. So, a genuine friend doesn’t just ignore your failures (because honestly, what’s friendship without a little mockery?), but they also clap like crazy from the sidelines when life hands you trophies. They know it’s not a competition—unless it’s Mario Kart, and then all bets are off.
In short, a true friend walks the tightrope of humility and pride. They’ll root for you when you’re soaring and pick you up when you’re flopping. And if they don’t? Well, maybe you’re better off with a dog. Dogs love everything about you—success, failure, or burnt toast.
Step Up to the Challenge
The Friendship Mirror Challenge…
Identify a Friend’s Success: Think of a friend who recently achieved something—big or small. It could be a promotion, finishing a tough project, or even nailing that TikTok dance. Reflect honestly: how did you feel when you heard about it? Were you genuinely happy, or did a tiny pang of envy sneak in?
Celebrate Them Loudly: Take a tangible step to celebrate their success. Send a thoughtful message, plan a coffee hangout, or post a shoutout for them on social media. Let them feel seen and valued for their accomplishment.
Overlook a Flaw: Think of a time this same friend let you down—forgot your birthday, bailed on plans, or left dirty dishes at your place. Make a conscious choice to forgive and move on without bringing it up.
Self-Check Reflection: At the end of the week, journal about how it felt to truly support your friend’s success and overlook their flaw. Did it strengthen the friendship? Did it change your perspective about them—or even yourself?
Bonus Twist: Do this for two different friends—one thriving and one struggling. Notice how your reactions and feelings vary.
This challenge will help you embody the essence of the quote and deepen your understanding of what it means to be a “true friend.”
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