— Thomas Davidson
Insights on Today's Quote
All the possessions and status symbols in the world are like glitter on a cake. Flashy, sure, but taste-wise? It’s all about the cake underneath. And that cake—our character, the part that shows up in how we treat people, what we pour into our work, and the way we show up for life—that’s the real deal. Glitter might catch your eye, but it won’t fill you up.
If what we are shines through in what we do, then our actions become these little glimpses of who we truly are. Our kindness, our curiosity, our grit? They can’t help but peek out. So maybe the challenge here is to live in a way that lets all that good stuff leak into everything we touch. To let who we are—our real, unfiltered selves—be our worth, rather than getting tangled in the stuff that looks shiny but fades fast.
Step Up to the Challenge
For the next seven days, focus on doing one small action each day that reflects who you are rather than what you have.
This could mean:
- Day 1: Help someone out with no expectation of anything in return—no “what’s in it for me” allowed. Just pure generosity.
- Day 2: Spend a few extra minutes listening (really listening) to someone you care about, without checking your phone or thinking about your to-do list. Show them they’re valuable through your presence.
- Day 3: Do a task at work or home with a little extra care, even if nobody will notice. Focus on the integrity and pride you put into it, just because it’s who you are.
- Day 4: Share something meaningful with someone else that’s not about your accomplishments—maybe a funny story, a mistake, or something you’re struggling with to show your real self.
- Day 5: Forgive someone (or yourself) for a mistake and let it go without fanfare. It’s about grace, not a performance.
- Day 6: Do something kind for someone anonymously. This lets you focus purely on the joy of giving without the acknowledgment.
- Day 7: Reflect on who you want to be when nobody’s watching, and choose one way to start living that out more regularly.
The goal here is to notice how these actions feel compared to, say, showing off a new achievement or focusing on external validation. It might just give you a fresh perspective on the kind of worth that stays with you, long after the shiny stuff fades away.