— Ernest Hemingway
Thoughts on Today's Quote
The world has this special knack for throwing curveballs that you didn’t see coming, and suddenly you’re knocked off your game, flailing in the dirt. But—and here’s the catch—not everyone stays broken. Some people, after all the chaos and cracks, come back stronger. It’s like kintsugi, the Japanese art of mending broken pottery with gold. The broken parts are still there, but they’re what make you unique, even more valuable.
Hemingway doesn’t sugarcoat it either—there’s no “and everyone lives happily ever after” vibe here. It’s more like, “Yeah, life is tough, but you’ll toughen up too… or not. Good luck!” But seriously, there’s a strange beauty in that. The idea that our brokenness, if we allow it, can become our strength. I mean, if you think about it, the people who have been through the wringer often have that steely, yet tender quality. They’ve seen stuff. They know stuff. They’re not easily fooled by life’s glitter because they know what it’s like when it all goes to dust.
And who doesn’t love a good comeback story? If you’ve ever been through something hard and come out the other side, you probably know exactly what Hemingway means. You don’t just bounce back; you rebuild with a bit more wisdom, a bit more tenacity. Maybe some scars, but, hey, they give you character.
So yeah, we all break. The trick is figuring out what you’re going to do with the pieces.
The Challenge
Here’s a practical challenge inspired by Hemingway’s quote: Identify a “broken place” in your life, something that’s caused you hardship or adversity, and turn it into a source of strength.
Challenge Steps:
Reflect: Think about a difficult experience you’ve had—whether it’s a personal setback, a failure, or something that really knocked you down. Take a moment to truly acknowledge that experience without shying away from the pain or discomfort it caused.
Analyze the Break: What specific part of that situation hurt the most? What did you lose, or what changed because of it? Write it down, and be brutally honest with yourself.
Find the Strength: Now, here’s the hard part—look at how that “broken” part of you could actually make you stronger. What did you learn from the experience? Did it give you a new skill, a different perspective, or a sense of resilience? If you haven’t found that strength yet, think about what you need to do to get there.
Take Action: Do something concrete this week to reinforce that strength. For example, if a previous failure made you hesitant to take risks, challenge yourself to try something out of your comfort zone. If you’ve been emotionally hurt, work on building emotional resilience by reaching out for support or practicing mindfulness.
The goal is to not just recognize where you were broken, but to actively make that place stronger by facing it head-on.
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